Keeping the flame lit in your relationship is crucial no matter how long you’ve been a couple, and flowers have been doing that work for literal centuries. It’s why we love a dozen red roses on Valentine’s Day, the florals that surrounded you when you said “I do” on anniversaries, and cheerful, colourful blooms on their birthday. Now that you’re basically an expert, it’s time to crack the code on the second part of the equation: when to surprise your partner with a bouquet and how to do it for max impact. This is when we call in the love experts who’ve come before, like Dr. Gary Chapman and his classic love languages. There are also the seven romance styles that give amazing guidance. And of course, hobbies and interests come in handy when you want to make your partner feel super seen. At Ital Florist in Toronto, Ontario, we’re taking inspo from every corner to help you level up the romance.

Pair Flowers with a Love Note, Poem, or Song Lyrics

What we say 100 percent matters in our relationships, especially for those partners who are fluent in words of affirmation as their number one love language. That counts double when you’re planning a surprise for them that needs to be on point, as few things understand the assignment like a super thoughtful declaration. Fortunately, with the right poem (written by you or a famous writer), song lyrics (go with their favourite, of course), or message of your own tucked into a card, your gift will be absolutely everything. Present it with a fresh bouquet of colorful flowers for the finishing touch, as blooms speak loud in just the right way.

Pick Them Up From Work with Flowers on the Passenger Seat

You don’t need to have tons and tons of free time to show someone you love them in the most sincere manner! Sometimes all it takes is picking them up from the office with a gorgeous bouquet of blossoms to turn their evening from totally tired to top tier. As they’re taking in the big surprise, drop the rest of the details to them: the house is clean, you’ve hired a sitter, and they can choose what to do for the rest of the night. This speaks directly to the heart of folks who have a practical romance style or resonate hard with acts of service.

Plan an Adventurous Day Together

We love it when our partners feel super loved by the words we speak or the little ways we show up for them literally every day. But sometimes you’ve got to take the gesture to the next level when they live for shared experiences and activities, all rolled up with QT with you as the glue. This, of course, means you should plan an amazing couple’s adventure, from exploring a UNESCO site together (near or far, you have tons of options) to exciting activities like downhill skiing, diving into a natural spring, or snowshoeing in the wilderness. And what better way to break the news of your awesome journey than with blooms delivered before you go? It’s a physical reminder of all the excitement to come, which is a win in our books!

Brighten the Kitchen with Blooms While You Bake or Cook Together

Cooking, baking, and eating might not be a legit love language, but they’re definitely activities that give some of us dopamine and serotonin for days. If your partner is a straight up foodie, a shared activity in the kitchen is no doubt in order. Set the mood for the romantic surprise with a spotless counter, their favourite playlist, flowers for a romantic vibe, and all the ingredients you’ll need to cook a meal that Food Network judges would vote for. Once they walk in, you can spend that time letting them teach you how it all magically comes together, then nosh on the fruits of their labor when it’s done. Top it off by cleaning up after your chef has made yet another masterpiece.

Ensure They Have Fresh Stems All Year Long

Gift giving can really be a challenge, even if you know your partner better than anyone else. You want them to be surprised, but you also want to know that they’ll love what you get them, especially if their love language is receiving gifts. You also want to show emotional support with each present, otherwise it’s just stuff, right? That’s where the florals come in, which have been showing the love for centuries. Take the guesswork out of the equation by sending them blooms every month, fresh from an independent, artistic florist who’s always on time. That way your sweetie will feel loved in a new way over and over again, all year long.

Everyone feels loved and seen in different ways, but flowers are literally a universal way to get the message across when it’s time for real romance. With so many colours and so many different blossoms, you can show your partner you see them for exactly who they are. At Ital Florist, we understand the assignment and will make sure the job gets done right..